You’re Getting Crazier by the Minute When You Keep Running Back to Your Dumped Non-Existent Boyfriend
You made it very clear back in April that you wouldn’t deal with your Non-Existent Boyfriend’s foolishness. You gave him all the reasons you had bottled up and you socked it to him!
By May, you were back in your Non-Existent Boyfriend’s arms (or bed) smitten by his affectionate words/actions.
Here you are in June, confused and distraught, because the same reason you threw the deuces to your Non-Existent Boyfriend back in April, are the same reasons you’re fed up now.
(And the cycle continues….)
You’re getting crazier by the minute when you keep going back into a situation with your Non-Existent Boyfriend that you know isn’t healthy. Maybe he refuses to be consistent, maybe your relationship only revolves around sex, or maybe he won’t commit after several months. Hell, maybe you guys never go out and he’s sticking to paying his Netflix monthly dues… (and actually tuning in)!
You’ll never become emotionally healthy when you keep leaving and going back to your Non-Existent Boyfriend. Not only are you telling him you’re okay with his crap, but you’re creating a side of you that will fall into the crazy zone because after all, what you’re doing is CRAZY!
I get it. It’s hard leaving behind a guy you like. But let’s face it; he’s not the only guy on Earth and you have to believe that. If you’re reasonably uncomfortable with how you feel when you’re dating your Non-Existent Boyfriend, that means you’re not happy. It also means, neither is he.
Stop going crazy returning to a Non-Existent Boyfriend who can’t get it together. You’ll appreciate your bold move in the long run and you’ll make room for the Non-Existent Boyfriend you’d never leave behind—ever!
Your favorite blogger (and “Crazy” Coach),